Week 14 - Burn the Good Girl
Be honest…
How many times have you said “sorry” today?
Sorry for being late.
Sorry for asking a question.
Sorry for needing something.
Sorry for literally just… being a human.
Last week, we talked about the rules you’ve been living by.
This week…We’re breaking one of the biggest ones.
🔥 You Were Taught to Soften Yourself
Apologizing became your way of staying likable.
It makes you easier to handle.
Less intimidating.
More… acceptable.
But every unnecessary “sorry” sends a message: “I don’t fully deserve to be here.”
And that’s just not true.
🔥 You’re Not “Too Much”
You’re not too loud, too emotional or too opinionated.
You’ve just been surrounded by people who were more comfortable when you were quieter.
Read that again.
🔥 Confidence Doesn’t Apologize
Confident women don’t shrink themselves to fit.
They take up space.
They ask for what they want.
They speak without cushioning every sentence.
And no… that doesn’t make them rude. It makes them grounded.
✨ Practical Shifts
Replace “sorry” with “thank you” (Thank you for waiting vs. sorry I’m late)
Catch yourself mid-apology and pause
Practice saying what you want without over-explaining
Stand taller, speak slower
Remind yourself: “I don’t need to earn my space here”
You don’t need permission to take up space… but you might need practice feeling it. Click the button below to send me a quick email for more info on a boudoir session.