Why I Finally Did a Boudoir Session (& You Should Too!)

Hey #SheerBeauties! I took a big leap and traveled from New York to Youngstown, Ohio for my first boudoir shoot. It took a whole year of planning, intense workouts, and lots of prayer to make this happen…but it was all worth it! I'm excited to share the behind-the-scenes story & some of my favorite images with all of you.

There are many different reasons a person may want to do a boudoir session. For some it may serve as a wedding or anniversary gift, for others they may want to overcome body image issues or get a confidence boost. For me personally I had been following a dynamic couple; Brian and Jen, for many years on Instagram. Initially I had wanted to work with them as soon as I saw their feed and realized how incredibly talented they are. Despite this I was still a little apprehensive and it did take time for me to get more comfortable with the idea of being so vulnerable with my body in front of strangers. 🍑 I pretty much sat on the sidelines & pondered about how things would go if I ever booked my own shoot. Eventually one day I just decided to go for it & I’m so thankful I did! Shopping for lingerie & scouting out poses was so much fun. I really feel like my photos captured my personality and I was truly captivated & in awe of how I was captured on film. 

One of my favorite parts of my shoot was recreating the famous scene from the Wolf of Wall Street, “Morning Ritual”. Featured in these photo with me is an amazing local model, Tyjaan King.

When I saw my boudoir photos it was such a surreal feeling. I had never quite seen myself that way before & it felt almost as if I was seeing myself for the first time. The experience of seeing my photos allowed me to see how beautiful I truly am. Going through my divorce at a young age had left me feeling insecure, and this boudoir shoot definitely helped me validate myself and feel more confident in my own skin. It was worth every penny I spent! I can't wait to do it all again!

So, I challenge you to do a boudoir shoot at least once in your life. It doesn't matter if you're male or female, big or small, young or old. Boudoir photography is for everyone. It's time to embrace your inner beauty and celebrate yourself!

XOXO, Victoria

Don’t be shy…

Oh honey, boudoir sessions are all the rage among us ladies. And let me tell you, it's not just about getting those sexy shots. It's about honoring and loving yourself just the way you are. No matter what shape or size you are, boudoir photography makes you feel like the goddess you truly are. So, don't be shy. Embrace your beauty and go for it! To inspire you, we interviewed one of our #SheerBeauties. Her thoughts are a true gem, so keep on reading.

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WHY DID YOU TAKE THE LEAP TO BOOK A BOUDOIR SESSION? I was inspired by an incredibly sexy and beautiful friend who had also had a photo shoot with Sheer Photography.

HOW DID YOU FEEL WALKING INTO THE STUDIO THE DAY OF YOUR SESSION? Wow, I gotta tell you - I was super nervous at first! But, Jen and Brian were absolutely amazing and put me at ease in no time.

HOW DID YOU FEEL AFTER YOUR SHOOT? I was so shocked at how incredibly breathtaking my pictures were.

WHAT WOULD YOU SAY TO SOMEONE WHO WAS ON THE FENCE ABOUT BOOKING THEIR OWN SESSION? Just do it! You deserve it. The high will last for sooooo long. It's been months and I still feel incredible about myself.

DID YOU HAVE ANY INSECURITIES OR WORRIES ABOUT DOING A SESSION THAT WE HELPED YOU GET OVER BEFORE/DURING/AFTER YOUR SESSION? I thought I was so fat and unattractive. But Jen and Brian were so supportive and funny that I felt amazing during my session and even more confident after I saw all of my gorgeous photos.

WHAT WOULD YOU SAY TO SOMEONE WHO WAS WORRIED ABOUT NOT LIKING ANY OF THEIR IMAGES AFTER THEIR SESSION? I didn't think there would be any pictures that I liked and I loved 99% of them. I had a hard time picking my favorites for the album.

WHAT WOULD YOU SAY TO SOMEONE WHO WAS HESITANT TO INVEST MONEY INTO A BOUDOIR EXPERIENCE? I don't regret one penny of my money spent. Not one! I love my pictures and the self-confidence I gained from it is priceless!

XOXO, Miss D

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Trust me, after this experience, you'll feel like a million bucks. It's not just about the stunning images, it's about affirming your worth and feeling comfortable in your own skin. So, let's celebrate ourselves because we are all uniquely beautiful and deserving of it! If you are ready to schedule your own session, visit the CONTACT page and we will send you all the juicy info!

Get ready to slay your boudoir session, mama!

Oh, yes honey. It's time to treat yourself to a little bit of luxury and capture your boudoir beauty with Sheer Photography. But, hold up - don't start stressing about the prep! I've got your back, girl. As a fellow mama, I know how overwhelming it can be to prepare for something like a boudoir session. But guess what? I'm here to share my tips and tricks on how to prepare for your boudoir session like a pro. So grab a glass of wine and let's dive in, mama!

First things first: outfit selection. When planning for your boudoir session, remember that confidence is key. Choose outfits that make you feel sexy, but also comfortable. Whether it's a lacy bralette, a silky robe, or high-waisted undies, choose pieces that accentuate your curves and make you feel like a goddess. Don't overthink it- you don't need to go out and buy a whole new lingerie collection. Focus on pieces that you feel confident in and that are flattering to your specific body type.

Now, let's talk about hair and makeup. We all know how amazing it feels to have a fresh curls or a flawless makeup application. We want you to sit back and relax, not have to worry about what the weather will do to your makeup & hair on the way into your session. So, we include professional hair, makeup & false lashes for your session! But, if you're more of a DIY kinda gal, that's okay too. If you're doing your own hair and makeup, keep it simple and classic. Focus on enhancing your natural features and adding a pop of color or drama to your look. Don't forget to moisturize your skin and lips beforehand for a silky smooth finish.

Let's not forget about the posing! We all have our good and bad angles, but no need to stress about it. During your boudoir session with Sheer Photography, our team will guide you through each pose, ensuring you look and feel confident. If you want to do a little prepping beforehand, practice your posing in front of a mirror or take some test shots on your phone. This can help you get a feel for what poses and angles are most flattering for you.

Lastly, remember to relax and have fun! A boudoir session is all about celebrating YOU and your beauty. Think of it as a self-care day where you get to be pampered and feel like the center of attention. Put on your favorite tunes, sip some bubbly, and enjoy the experience. Trust me, the nerves will subside once you see just how fierce and fabulous you look in your stunning photos.

So there you have it, mama. My tips and tricks on how to prepare for your boudoir session with Sheer Photography. Remember, the most important thing is to be yourself, embrace your body, and have fun. Trust the process and our team will take care of the rest. Can't wait to see you slay your session!

XOXO, Jen

If you need a sign...

For all the ladies, men and couples contemplating becoming a #SheerBeauty here’s your sign. I’m just your average Tom boy; hunting, fishing, and working on derby cars. I’m a nurse and mother of 2 little girls. Needless to say after having 2 children in under 2 years my body was pushed to many limits. In December I decided to make health changes due to my unhappiness in myself and in February I booked my shoot for June. I gave myself a weight loss goal that was incredibly reasonable; surpassed it and set 2 more goals. While the 3rd I did not reach I have no regrets.

The day of my shoot I got in my car for my hour drive (I would’ve drove much more for Jen and Brian) and thought I was making a big mistake and I wasn’t supposed to be doing something like this; this is absolutely out of my element and something I turned my nose up at years ago. I walked upstairs to be greeted by all the smiling faces. Jen asked if I was nervous and I told her about feeling like I made a mistake by doing this. Without missing a beat they assured me that I was where I was supposed to be.

As previously stated I’m not a girly girl I don’t ever do my hair and makeup so I let them doll me up and HOLY SMOKES! Even through all the hurdles they’re magicians! There was only one of my 3 outfits that I brought that I loved; they didn’t force me into them because I had brought them, they picked the other 2 for me from their lingerie closet. I had total intentions of using the sheets and not going full nude and somehow I ended up doing full nude and because of it I have some favorite pictures. Many times Jen showed me the back of the camera and I was sure that they had used a model and that it wasn’t me they were taking pictures of.

The support and encouragement they provided before, during and after the shoot you cannot describe in words. I’m thankful to have the opportunity to have met them and spent the day with such incredible people. They really are something special and I’ll definitely be back.

If you needed a sign — this is it!

Miss M

I loved it so much...

I had TWO sessions with Sheer Photography in 2021!! Everyone always asks me: “were you nervous?” And I can truthfully respond every time that I wasn’t.

Jen, Brian, and Brittany make every part of the shoot from makeup, to posing, to even choosing my outfits (because I always bring extras just incase!) all super smooth and natural. They are professional but still down to Earth and easily relatable. I appreciate their amazing lighting skills they use in the studio to bring out so much natural beauty when we’re all so used to a world of Snapchat filters. Thank you for always providing an amazing experience and making me feel all around beautiful. Can’t wait to book session number three!

XOXO, Miss A

The right person will make you fall in love with yourself too

For quite some time I had been following the Sheer VIP Facebook page and on Instagram. Everytime I would see a new SheerBeauty picture posted I would always think, “WOW! They look like models. I wish I could pose like that, or rock a sexy outfit.” I loved all the images that were bravely shared. Once upon a time ago, I had that courage, confidence and self love that all these women had in their photos. I kept saying when I lose weight I will book a session.

During Covid, two things happened that hadn’t in almost 12 years for me. 1. I found love. Real, true, I found my soul-mate, best friend kind of love. There is an adage that couples in happy relationships gain more weight over time- that must have meant we both made each other verrrrrry happy because we both gained. Which leads to number 2. I gained weight for the first time since I had been pregnant over a decade ago. My boyfriend truly loves every inch and pound of me. He makes me feel so amazing and loved. But I didn’t feel sexy or proud of my current figure. I thought what a surprise it would be to gift him me! As a bonus I would have motivation to work out and get fit for my photo shoot.  So I did it and booked a session. 

As time went on I knew I wanted to work out, eat better, get fit. Surprise- it didn’t happen. I started to get so nervous as my session got closer. I wasn’t the weight I wanted to be at and I was feeling the most unsexy ever in my life. The night before I thought about cancelling but then my awesome gift for my boyfriend would be ruined. I had no backups planned. So I woke up the next day and came to the Sheer building with my outfits. 

Right away we popped open some wine and Jen and Brittney got started on my hair and makeup. Before I knew it I was all prettied up and it was time to take photos. During the first few photos I was unsure of myself and nervous. Within a few moments I relaxed and then it was FUN! They show you some photos as they take them and it truly is mind blowing. The day flew by and before I knew it, it was time for the reveal. I was in awe of how I looked at what they were showing me. It was ME on the screen looking like a sultry sexy badass woman. I couldn’t stop looking at my womanly curves! I booked this shoot for the reason to gift my boyfriend some sexy photos, but at the same time I found me all over again. Those thick thighs and extra loving to squeeze I had been complaining about the day before? Gone were those negative thoughts and were replaced with confidence that I love those parts of me that he loves too again. 

I didn’t know how to keep it all a secret for over a month, but somehow I did. Everyday I wanted to cave and show him. I was bursting with excitement and would catch myself looking at the App on my phone in private. I was still blown away that it was me in the pictures. When the day came and I gave him his present, his jaw dropped. It was worth every penny and minute of nerves. Especially when we both got something from it.

Would I recommend a boudoir session with the amazing Sheer Squad? Absolutely. Whether it’s for you, or for a loved one. Do it. When you think of beautiful things, you should think of yourself. I would compare it to getting a tattoo. Because as that day ended I already wanted to book another session. Maybe for the next one I will be more in shape, and if not I’m perfectly fine with it. We are all imperfectly beautiful in our own ways. Until then I will keep trying to convince my boyfriend to join, and keep admiring my beautiful photos. Thank you Brian, Jen and Brittney for an amazing experience! You guys rock at what you do! 

Xoxo, 

Miss R

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