Why Everyone Deserves a Boudoir Experience: Miss M's Story

Have you ever thought about booking a boudoir session but kept putting it off? Maybe you’ve told yourself “someday” or worried you’d be too nervous, too exposed or just not ready yet.

One of my recent clients felt the exact same way. She finally said YES to a boudoir session with Sheer Photography and her story is the perfect reminder of why every woman deserves this experience.

What Made Her Finally Say Yes?

“Honestly, it was just the giveaway on Facebook. BUT now that I’ve done it, I’d recommend it a million times over! If you need to, do the savings option before your shoot or the payment plans after. Either way, it’s worth it.”

Sometimes, all it takes is that little nudge to finally give yourself permission.

Excited + Nervous (and That’s Normal!)

Leading up to her shoot, she admitted:
“I was both excited and nervous…probably more nervous. I had an ex take boudoir photos of me before (definitely NOT the same quality as Sheer), so I had a little experience. But the experience at Sheer was far better and the pictures are absolutely amazing!”

Feeling nervous is normal, but the right experience completely changes the game!

The Biggest Surprise

“The way that as soon as I saw Jen, all the doubts and jitters melted away. I thought to myself, ‘We’ve got this and it’s about to be really fun!’”

That’s exactly how it should feel…a boudoir session isn’t about stress, it’s about freedom, fun and feeling like yourself again.

Seeing the Photos for the First Time

“When I saw my images, I was absolutely blown away! I did the whole ‘kick your legs and cover your mouth in shock’ thing. My husband even thought something was wrong until he saw them too!”

That moment when women finally see themselves the way the rest of the world sees them…is pure magic!

Her Advice to Women on the Fence

“If you’ve been on the fence for years like I was… be like Nike and ‘Just Do It.’ It’s worth it. On a bad day, you can look back at your pictures and remember: YOU ARE THAT WOMAN!

Don’t worry about being almost (or completely) naked around someone new. Jen makes it feel like you’ve known her forever. I even told my husband, ‘I was completely naked and didn’t feel weird AT ALL!’

And honestly? If you have someone to share the pictures with, you can send them at the most inappropriate times and have a little fun with it. 🥵🫦”

Why This Matters for YOU

Boudoir isn’t just about sexy photos. It’s about confidence, freedom and claiming your space as a woman who deserves to feel powerful and desired…on her own terms.

👉 If you’ve been waiting for “someday,” this is your sign.
👉 If you’ve been nervous, know that you’re not alone and you’ll walk out grinning.
👉 If you’ve ever thought, “I want to feel like THAT woman,” the answer is simple: you already are her.

All you need to do is say YES!

✨ 💋 If your heart is whispering YES, trust it. Start by sending me a message…I’ll take care of the rest.

That Gut Feeling? That’s Your YES...Trust It!

You know that little voice in your gut? The one that gets louder every time you see a photo that makes your heart skip? The one that whispers, “I want to do this…” even when your brain screams, “But what if…”?

👆 That’s your YES. And it’s time to trust it.

Boudoir Isn’t About Logic…It’s About Instinct!

Booking a boudoir photo shoot isn’t something you can rationalize with spreadsheets or “perfect timing.” It’s not about your budget, your schedule or waiting until you lose five pounds.

Boudoir is about that spark inside you. The one that says: “I want to feel powerful, sexy and unapologetically me!”

And when you follow that instinct? Magic happens.

Say YES to You!

I’ve been a Northeast Ohio boudoir photographer long enough to see the transformation (ugh, I know, I hate that word too…but it’s true). Women walk into my studio nervous, fidgety, unsure. Then they walk out glowing & grinning like the badass beauty they are!

It’s not about being vain. It’s not about proving anything. It’s about saying hell yes to the part of you that’s been waiting to feel seen.

Maybe she’s been quiet. Maybe life got loud and she got buried under work, motherhood or just plain old “being responsible.” But she’s still in there and a boudoir session is how she comes out to play again.

Stop Waiting for Someday

That flutter in your chest? That curiosity? That fire? Don’t push it away. Don’t file it under “someday.” Because someday isn’t real. Now is real.

And your YES is ready.

Ready to Light the Match?

Here’s the truth: you don’t have to know how to pose. You don’t have to have the “perfect” outfit. You don’t even need a reason.

All you need is that gut feeling and a photographer (hi, that’s me 👋) who knows how to guide you every step of the way!

So let’s do it. Let’s plan your boudoir experience in Northeast Ohio. Say YES to yourself. Say YES out loud. Say YES without looking back.

🔥 Your only job? Show up. I’ll take care of the rest.

You’re Not “Too Much”...You’re Magnetic!

Have you ever felt like you were too much… and somehow not enough at the same time?

If you laugh too loud, you’re “too much.”
If you stay quiet, you’re “boring.”
If you wear something bold, people think “Who does she think she is?”
But if you blend in, you feel invisible.

Sound familiar? You’re not alone. So many women I photograph tell me the exact same thing. But here’s the truth: you were never meant to play small.

Why We Feel Like We’re “Too Much”

There’s this constant pressure out there telling us:

• Don’t be too loud.

• Don’t be too bold.

• Don’t be too sexy.

• Don’t take up too much space.

But what if the parts of you that feel “too much” are actually the most magnetic, beautiful parts of you?

That’s exactly why boudoir photography exists…it’s the opposite of shrinking yourself.

Boudoir is About Taking Up Space

Boudoir isn’t about being “just enough.” It’s about being all of you.

💋 Sweet and spicy!
💋 Quiet and wild!
💋 Soft and strong!

When you step into my boudoir studio in Northeast Ohio, you don’t have to hide anymore. Boudoir is where you finally get to breathe, let loose, and celebrate the woman you really are.

Here’s my promise:

• If you’ve ever been told you’re “too much,” I’ll cheer so loud the walls shake.

• If you’ve ever felt “not enough,” I’ll show you how breathtaking you really are.

What a Boudoir Session Feels Like

Want drama? I’ll grab the fan and let your hair fly.
Want playful? Laugh, crawl, roll around…I’ll hype you like you’re on your own runway.

Because the second you step into this space, something shifts. You realize you were never too much. You’ve always been exactly right.

Boudoir photography isn’t just about beautiful pictures (though you’ll absolutely have those too). It’s about walking away knowing you’re powerful, magnetic and worthy of being seen.

Ready to See Yourself This Way?

If this tug-of-war between too much and not enough has been weighing on you, let’s change that.

👉 Stop overthinking it. Just get in touch with me today and say “Tell me more.” I’ll send you all the juicy details about booking your boudoir session here in Girard, Ohio.

You’re not too much. You’re powerful. And you’re just getting started.

An Experience Worth Remembering

I stumbled upon Sheer Photography in a photography group on Facebook. In a previous life, pre-child, I had my own photography business. I was wow'ed by their work and being a former pro, it takes a lot to win me over!

I followed their facebook page for awhile before even thinking about booking. 2021 was a rough year for me personally and I wanted to do something for myself. I needed the self confidence boost and I knew that a session with Sheer would do just that for me.

I was so nervous the day of my session. I even took a valium before I got there! I was beyond nervous, completely terrified! But as soon as I sat down in the chair and talked with Jen and Brian while I had my hair and makeup done, I was completely at ease. Of course, I was still a little hesitant when I changed into my first outfit. But once we got started I felt absolutely amazing! I was shocked when I looked at the back of the camera. Was that really me??? OMG I looked super hot!!

When it was time for the in person reveal I loved the photographs that Brian took. It was so hard to pick favorites. Going into it I planned on getting just a few images in the smallest album. Well, that plan went out the window - I ended up getting a collection with a larger album, the phone app and digital files as well as the photo block. I was so thrilled with the images I couldn't help myself!

If you're unsure if you want to do a boudoir photo shoot, just do it! It was a great experience from start to finish & one of the best investments I could have made. I can't say enough about how fun and professional it was working with the Sheer Team! I loved my hair and makeup, they had a huge selection of wardrobe options in the closet and of course the photos are fantastic. You'll never look exactly how you think you want to look, so don't put it off. I saw a beautiful side of myself that had gotten lost in being a mom. You will not regret it at all! Don't wait any longer - fill out the form below and schedule your own boudoir session! Go ahead, take a chance on yourself - you deserve it!

XOXO, Miss D

My first #SheerExperience

Alright honeys, listen up! This was my first photo shoot EVER! Can you tell? No. The reason behind that is because Jen and Brian made sure I was comfortable while we did the shoot & answered all my questions before I even stepped foot into their boudoir studio in Youngstown, Ohio. Once I warmed up, my #SheerBeauty was showcased!

If you're planning on a boudoir session, I'm here to give you some tips on how to make the experience as smooth and effortless as possible. You want to feel confident and sexy, and I'm going to help you get there girlfriend!!

First things first, communication is key. Talk to Jen & Brian beforehand about what kind of look you're going for, whether it's soft and romantic or sultry and edgy, maybe even a mix of both. This will give them a better idea of how to style, pose you & what areas of the studio to use. It's also important to discuss any insecurities or areas you want to highlight so that they can work with you to create the perfect shots. They email you a questionnaire to help with a lot of these things & ask things you might not even consider.

Another important factor is what to wear. You want to feel comfortable and confident in your outfits, so choose pieces that make you feel sexy, whether it's a lacy bralette or a satin robe. Don't forget to bring accessories like jewelry or heels to add some extra flair. And ladies, if all else fails, they have a whole lingerie closet, which I took full advantage of for every single one of my outfits! It was so helpful & less stressful, I came in with nothing to wear and Jen picked out everything based off what parts of my body I wanted to showcase & my self-perceived flaws that I didn’t want showing as much.

Next up, pamper yourself! Get your hair and makeup done beforehand, or do it yourself if you're a pro. It is so nice that they offer this in studio for all of us, and even better that Jen is the one doing your hair & makeup. It makes it a little less awkward to undress after you’ve been chatting with her for over an hour & feel like you two would be best friends outside of this! Don't forget to take care of your skin too - exfoliate and moisturize to ensure a smooth and glowing complexion.

Lastly, relax and have fun! Boudoir sessions should be a celebration of your beauty and sensuality, so don't be afraid to let loose and express yourself. Let Brian & Jen guide you through poses and movements, but also feel free to bring your own ideas to the table. They are amazing at working in any inspiration or props you have.

So there you have it, girlfriend - follow these tips and you'll be ready for your boudoir close-up in no time. Now scroll on down past my sexy photos and send them a message! Xoxo, Miss Y

Should I Lose Weight Before a Boudoir Shoot?

Are you thinking of booking a boudoir shoot but feeling anxious about whether or not you should lose weight before your session? You are definitely not alone in this thought! So many of us worry that we won’t look our best in photos if we don’t get into better shape before the shoot. Here is an overview of why losing weight prior to your SheerExperience is not necessary—in fact, it might even be counter-productive.

Why You Don't Have to Lose Weight for Your Boudoir Shoot

The number one reason you don’t need to feel pressure to lose weight before your boudoir shoot is because beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. Everyone has unique features that make them beautiful and those features should be celebrated! We understand this and will work with you to ensure that your photos highlight what makes you special and unique. We will help you pose in a way that shows off your best assets while downplaying any areas where you are self-conscious. Additionally, Jen can help enhance your natural beauty with complimentary hair & makeup, so you don't have to feel like you need to lose weight for your session with us. We also send out a welcome guide & lingerie information after you book your session to help you prepare. Even if you can’t find anything to wear, we have a lingerie closet available at no extra charge. Let us take the stress out of preparing for your session.

It's also important to note that trying to lose too much weight too quickly can actually cause more harm than good when it comes time for your session. Losing too much weight quickly can lead to skin sagging and dehydration which can leave skin looking dull and lifeless in photos—not exactly the look anyone wants! It's best to stay at a healthy weight by eating well and exercising regularly instead of drastically changing your diet or lifestyle right before your session.

How To Feel Confident During Your Photoshoot

At the end of the day, confidence is key when it comes time for your SheerExperience. Taking care of yourself by getting plenty of sleep prior to the big day, hydrating, eating a balanced diet, and taking extra time for pampering (like getting a massage or mani/pedi) can go a long way in helping you feel more relaxed as well as confident during your session. After all, if you're feeling relaxed and confident, then chances are those emotions will come through in the final product!

All in all, there's no need to rush into drastic lifestyle changes prior to booking a boudoir photoshoot; confidence is key! We understand that beauty comes in all shapes and sizes—so instead of worrying about losing weight, focus on taking care of yourself so that you feel relaxed and confident. If you’re ready to book your boudoir session in our Youngstown, Ohio studio, fill out the form on the CONTACT page and we will email you all the information!

Taking the Plunge: Embracing Self-Love Through a Boudoir Photo Shoot

You deserve to feel beautiful and confident, and boudoir photography is one of the best ways to do that. Having a boudoir photo shoot can be incredibly empowering and freeing, as it allows you to express yourself in ways that you may not have even dreamed of before. However, self-doubt can be a formidable obstacle to overcome. Here are some tips on how to empower yourself through boudoir photography and make the most out of your Sheer Experience.

Be Prepared

Our ultimate goal is to make you feel confident, sexy and empowered during your boudoir photo shoot. That's why we offer lingerie guides and tips, as well as hair and makeup services for all of our full sessions and so much more. Whether you want to come in with your own pose inspiration or let us handle the planning, we promise to make your experience with Sheer unforgettable. We strive to create an environment where you can truly relax and feel pampered, so that you can leave feeling empowered and confident in your own skin.

Stay Positive

It’s important to remember that this shoot is all about celebrating YOU! Don’t focus on any perceived imperfections; instead, focus on what makes you unique and special. Remind yourself that everyone has something special about them—whether it’s their curves, smile, eyes or “thigh-brow”— no one else looks exactly like you. It’s also important not to let negative thoughts creep in during the shoot. Even if something isn’t going as you planned before arriving, try your best not to let it affect your confidence levels or mood for the rest of the day.

Trust Your Photographer

We know that the thought of scheduling a boudoir session can be extremely scary. But don't worry, we're here to relieve any anxiety and make sure you feel confident every step of the way. From the moment you reach out to us to the final result, we're committed to providing you with the support and guidance you need. Trust us to take care of the details, so you can focus on what really matters — enjoying the process and celebrating YOU. Sit back, relax, and let us guide you from start to finish!

Having a boudoir photo shoot can remind you how beautiful you are inside and out by embracing your body shape and size while celebrating your individual beauty standards. So don't let self doubt stop you from taking this empowering journey - If you’re ready to find out more about scheduling your very own SheerExperience, fill out the form below and we will send you more info.

If you need a sign...

For all the ladies, men and couples contemplating becoming a #SheerBeauty here’s your sign. I’m just your average Tom boy; hunting, fishing, and working on derby cars. I’m a nurse and mother of 2 little girls. Needless to say after having 2 children in under 2 years my body was pushed to many limits. In December I decided to make health changes due to my unhappiness in myself and in February I booked my shoot for June. I gave myself a weight loss goal that was incredibly reasonable; surpassed it and set 2 more goals. While the 3rd I did not reach I have no regrets.

The day of my shoot I got in my car for my hour drive (I would’ve drove much more for Jen and Brian) and thought I was making a big mistake and I wasn’t supposed to be doing something like this; this is absolutely out of my element and something I turned my nose up at years ago. I walked upstairs to be greeted by all the smiling faces. Jen asked if I was nervous and I told her about feeling like I made a mistake by doing this. Without missing a beat they assured me that I was where I was supposed to be.

As previously stated I’m not a girly girl I don’t ever do my hair and makeup so I let them doll me up and HOLY SMOKES! Even through all the hurdles they’re magicians! There was only one of my 3 outfits that I brought that I loved; they didn’t force me into them because I had brought them, they picked the other 2 for me from their lingerie closet. I had total intentions of using the sheets and not going full nude and somehow I ended up doing full nude and because of it I have some favorite pictures. Many times Jen showed me the back of the camera and I was sure that they had used a model and that it wasn’t me they were taking pictures of.

The support and encouragement they provided before, during and after the shoot you cannot describe in words. I’m thankful to have the opportunity to have met them and spent the day with such incredible people. They really are something special and I’ll definitely be back.

If you needed a sign — this is it!

Miss M