Week 6 — Dark Feminine Energy
Last week, we woke HER up
This week, we give HER permission
Not permission to burn it all down.
Permission to want, to feel, to receive.
This week is about the most forbidden thing for:
👉 Pleasure without earning it first.
Let’s Talk About the Guilt No One Names
Here’s something most women won’t say out loud:
They want more…
but they feel guilty for wanting it.
More desire.
More pleasure.
More attention.
More depth.
More sensation.
So they tell themselves a story:
“Once I get everything done.”
“Once I lose the weight.”
“Once life slows down.”
“Once everyone else is taken care of.”
As if desire is a reward you earn for good behavior.
Dark Feminine Energy Doesn’t Wait to Be Earned
This is where the dark feminine breaks the rules.
She doesn’t ask:
Did I do enough today?
Was I productive enough?
Did I take care of everyone else first?
She asks:
“What do I want?”
And she lets that answer exist without explanation.
That’s why this energy feels uncomfortable at first.
Because most women were taught that wanting is selfish…
and pleasure is indulgent…
and desire should be quiet.
Why Desire Goes Dormant (Especially for Mothers & Wives)
Desire doesn’t disappear because you got older.
It disappears because it became conditional.
Conditional on:
Being useful
Being attractive in a specific way
Being easy to live with
Being “low maintenance”
Over time, your body learns:
Wanting feels risky.
So it shuts down.
Not to punish you.
To protect you.
The Dark Feminine Reclaims Pleasure Slowly
This isn’t about forcing yourself to feel sexy again.
It’s about letting yourself receive again.
Receiving:
Rest without guilt
Touch without expectation
Attention without apology
Desire without justification
The dark feminine awakens when you stop making pleasure prove its worth.
When you stop asking:
“Is this allowed?”
And start asking:
“Does this feel true?”
This Is Why So Many Women Feel Numb
Numbness isn’t the absence of desire.
It’s the result of denying it for too long.
When you constantly override what you want, your body eventually stops speaking loudly.
The dark feminine doesn’t demand.
She waits.
And when she finally gets your attention, it often shows up as:
Disconnection
Restlessness
A quiet sadness you can’t explain
A craving for depth you can’t name
That’s not a problem to fix.
That’s an invitation.
You’re Allowed to Want Without a Reason
This might be the most radical thing you read all week:
You don’t need to deserve desire.
You don’t need to justify pleasure.
You don’t need permission to feel alive.
You don’t need to explain why something lights you up.
The dark feminine doesn’t negotiate her worth.
She remembers it.
Try This Tonight
Instead of rushing past this feeling, sit with it.
Ask yourself:
“What do I want… if I don’t have to earn it?”
Don’t judge the answer.
Don’t act on it yet.
Just let it exist.
And if you’re craving space to explore this part of yourself with women who are asking the same questions…
🖤 Join us at Sheer Social – February 15th at 1pm
A space for honest conversations, connection, and permission to want more.
You don’t need to perform.
You don’t need to explain.
You just need to show up as you are.
Or if you’re ready to experience this energy in a way that changes how you see yourself forever…
🔥 Book a boudoir session
Not to become someone new.
But to remember who you already are.