Woman to woman…let’s get real for a minute!
It’s the week after Thanksgiving and if you’re anything like… well, every mom I know, you’ve spent the last few weeks pouring yourself into everyone and everything else. Family gatherings, school events, cleaning, cooking, trying to keep the peace, smiling for photos, managing expectations….basically doing emotional gymnastics while holding a pumpkin pie in one hand and a Target gift list in the other.
And somewhere in all of that?
You disappeared again.
You told yourself, “I’ll start taking care of myself after the holidays.”
You said, “January will be my time.”
You whispered, “Everyone else needs me more right now.”
But girl… when is it finally your turn?
What if THIS is the year you stop abandoning yourself?
Not January.
Not when life magically slows down (spoiler: it won’t)!
Not when the kids are older, or the budget is better, or when you’ve lost weight, or when you feel confident first.
What if the confidence comes because you finally choose you?
Because here’s the truth we’ve ignored for too long:
💥 Selflessness is beautiful, but self-abandonment is not.
💥 You can’t pour from an empty cup, and you are running on fumes.
💥 Your spark isn’t gone, it’s buried under everyone else’s needs.
And I see you.
The woman who used to feel bold.
The woman who craves passion and excitement again.
The woman who wants to feel like more than a chauffeur, chef, house manager, and emotional safe place for everyone else.
You deserve to feel alive again…not just functioning.
This is the time where you get to choose yourself!
Not because you’re selfish.
But because you are important too.
Because your daughters and sons are watching what self-worth looks like.
Because your marriage deserves a woman who feels powerful and sensual.
Because the world needs the version of you who knows her value.
And because deep down, you’re tired of playing small.
Imagine this being the story you tell next year:
“December 2025 was the year I stopped abandoning myself.
I reclaimed my confidence, my body, my voice, my joy.
I stopped waiting to feel ready and did it anyway.”
That version of you?
She’s already inside you.
She’s waiting for you to choose her.
So here’s your invitation:
Do one thing TODAY that’s just for you.
Say yes to something that scares you in a good way.
Do the thing your future self will be proud as hell you did.
Book the session.
Wear the lingerie.
Schedule the alone time.
Start the workout.
Say no to something that drains you.
Say YES to something that lights you up.
Choosing yourself is not an afterthought.
It’s the first step to feeling like the woman you were always meant to be.
And I’m right here cheering you on….and doing it with you!
This is the last month of the year, so stop abandoning yourself 💋🔥
— Jennifer
Sheer Photography Boudoir
