Let’s get one thing straight—boudoir isn’t about lingerie. It’s about you feeling bold, confident, and like the damn goddess you are. Sure, lingerie is hot, but if thongs and lace don’t make you feel sexy…guess what? You don’t have to wear them.
Here are some fire alternatives to lingerie that’ll still bring the heat and help you slay your session:
🔥 1. Your Favorite Oversized Tee or Hoodie - Nothing screams effortless sexy like a cozy, oversized band tee or your man’s hoodie and bare legs. Add a messy bun and some smoldering eye contact, and boom….vibe unlocked!!!
🔥 2. Button-Up Shirts (Bonus Points for Nothing Underneath) - Whether it’s crisp white, denim, flannel, or a silky robe-style button-up, this look is a classic for a reason. Pop a few buttons, let it hang off your shoulder, and let that confidence drip.
🔥 3. Jeans + Nothing Else - That’s right. Just jeans. Maybe unbuttoned. Maybe off your hips or under your booty to show it off! Maybe you’re topless and covering with your hands. It’s a whole moment and it’s damn sexy!
🔥 4. Leather Jackets, Blazers, or Crop Tops - Want that powerful, edgy queen vibe? Pair a cropped jacket or blazer with undies (or nothing at all). It’s bold, it’s modern, it’s major boss energy.
🔥 5. Nude, Sheets or a Towel - Sometimes the sexiest thing you can wear… is almost nothing. A sheet, a towel fresh from the shower, or just your body lit in all the right ways. Minimal fabric, max impact.
🔥 6. Body Jewelry or Accessories Only - Chain belts, body harnesses, statement earrings, or a killer pair of heels. You’d be shocked what a pair of thigh-high boots and confidence can do.
🔥 7. Something Sentimental - His favorite flannel. Your wedding veil. A vintage tee from college. That item you’ve had forever that makes you feel you. Sentimental is sexy too.
The bottom line? If it makes you feel amazing, it belongs in your shoot. Forget what boudoir “should” be and start thinking about what makes you feel like your hottest, most badass self.
And if you’re not sure what to bring? I got you. When you book a session with me, we’ll plan out the whole vibe…including outfit inspo that fits your energy.
Let’s break the rules and make some magic. 🔥