Let’s talk about that nervous, shaky, OMG what am I doing energy you’ve got going on when you think about possibly doing a boudoir session.
First of all… YESSSSS! That feeling is everything.
You’re not nervous because you’re not ready. You’re nervous because your next-level, badass self is knocking on the door and it’s almost time to let her out. That little flutter in your chest? That rush of adrenaline when you think about booking a boudoir session? That is the universe screaming: Babe, this is for you!
Let’s be clear: You don’t get butterflies over boring stuff. You get butterflies when you’re standing at the edge of something new. Something transformative. Something that’s going to shake you up in all the best ways.
Boudoir is not about being perfect. It’s not about losing weight or knowing how to pose or suddenly becoming a supermodel. It’s about stepping into the studio with your nerves, your realness, your whole self, and letting the magic unfold.
And trust me, I’ve seen it happen. I’ve watched women walk through the door with wide eyes, holding their breath, wondering if they’ve lost their minds. But the second the camera starts clicking and the vibe gets flowing, something insane happens…The nerves melt into power. The fear turns into fire. The self doubt turns into “Damn, is that me?!” They start laughing. Smiling. Vibing. Owning it. And by the time they see their photos? It’s like a lightning bolt straight to the soul. Not because I changed them but because they finally saw what’s been inside them all along.
Girl, if you’ve been thinking about this… if you’ve clicked around my site, peeked at my Instagram, typed out a message and deleted it, then this is me standing here yelling yes. This. Now.
You don’t need to wait until you’ve “figured it all out.” You don’t need to wait until you hit some magical milestone or feel 100% confident.
The nerves are the sign. The nerves mean you’re ready. Because people who don’t care? They don’t feel this way. People who aren’t ready? They’re not feeling that internal buzz. But you? You’ve got it. That spark. That heartbeat that skips a little when you picture yourself glowing and powerful and totally free.
Let’s turn those nerves into something unforgettable. Let’s create images that make you feel untouchable. Let’s do something that your future self is going to look back on and scream thank you for.
So if you’re still wondering, should I reach out? Yes. Do it.
Let’s talk. Ask me anything. There’s no pressure. Just a whole lot of potential, waiting for you to say let’s go.
You don’t need to be fearless. You just need to show up. That little fire inside you? Let’s light it up.