(Especially when you’re a mom, a wife and the keeper of everyone’s schedule)
Listen… if your confidence has been feeling a little wobbly lately, I need you to know something right out of the gate:
It’s not because you’re weak.
It’s because you’re carrying more than most people ever will.
Between school drop offs, work, laundry that somehow multiplies overnight, mental load Olympics, being everyone’s emotional support human and keeping a whole household alive…
Of course you feel stretched thin.
And now it’s the week before Thanksgiving…the time of year when women magically become event planners, head chefs, decorators, therapist, and chaos managers on top of their normal full-time roles. No wonder your confidence feels like it’s running on fumes.
But here’s the part no one says out loud:
Your confidence doesn’t disappear. It just gets buried under everything you’re juggling.
And we’re about to dig her back out.
1. Drop the “Good Girl” Pressure
You don’t need to be perfect.
You don’t need to have the Pinterest Thanksgiving.
You don’t need to keep everyone happy.
You just need to be YOU…the woman who shows up, tries her best and deserves to breathe for just five minutes.
Confidence grows when you stop apologizing for not being Superwoman.
2. Your Body Isn’t the Problem…Your Stress Is
When life gets heavy, your body reacts.
You get tired. You get bloated. You get drained.
None of that means you’re “less sexy.” It means you’re HUMAN. Some of the sexiest photos I’ve ever taken have been of women who walked in stressed as hell but still showed up for themselves.
Confidence isn’t about feeling perfect…it’s about deciding you’re worth showing up for even when you don’t.
3. Do One Thing This Week That Makes You Feel Like YOU Again
Not the mom version.
Not the wife version.
Not the “responsible adult” version.
YOU.
Maybe it’s a long shower, a walk alone, a fresh pair of lashes, blasting music in the car or finally saying “no” to something without guilt.
Tiny choices stack up. Tiny moments build confidence faster than perfection ever could.
4. Give Yourself Permission to Want More
Yes, you’re grateful.
Yes, you love your family.
Yes, you love being who everyone needs.
But you’re also a whole ass woman with desires, edges, fire, personality, sexuality and energy that deserves attention.
Confidence doesn’t grow in the shadows…it grows when you let yourself take up space again.
5. Do Something Bold Just for You
Here’s the truth: You don’t get your spark back by waiting for life to calm down.
You get it back by doing something that lights you up… even when you’re terrified.
Even when life is messy. Even when you feel “not ready.”
And this week…before the holiday chaos fully kicks in…is actually the best time to claim something for yourself!
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If you’ve been waiting for a sign… this is it.
A Final Note (Read This Slowly):
You’re allowed to take up space.
You’re allowed to feel sexy again.
You’re allowed to crave confidence and pleasure and identity outside your roles.
You’re allowed to do something wild, bold, fun and selfish…especially now!
Life is stressful. But your spark is still there. Let’s bring her back!